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"Understanding the Inner Child"
Hello and welcome to this page!
Let me share a story with you:
"So you felt like you just wanted to join
the children playing, to be one of them? Has that
ever happened before?" I gentle asked.
"Well, yes, but mostly people have just told
me to "...grow up and stop acting like a child. Be my age,
not my shoe size!" I've tried to stop the memories, but I
get overwhelmed sometimes. Nothing dulls the pain and the
voices now, not alcohol or parties ... or even cutting myself.
I know
because I have tried. That's why I am here today.
"I don't really want to talk about my
childhood because I think it was just 'the usual problems'", she
continued. "My dad was strict but better than my friend,
Sam, who used to belt him up every week. Sure he punished
us kids when we did wrong but ... it was the normal things dad's
do...wasn't it? We got the belt once or twice."
"....then, ya, there was the time my mum
pushed my sister into a hot stove for lying to her ... but there
wasn't any broken bones or anything like my friend's parents so
...."
The more Allie shared about her
parents, the more she began to see the withdrawal of their love
as the main punishment she received. As she continued, she
also could see the hurt and rejection in her childhood even
more.
Her only way to protect herself was to be
really, really good. She had to always swallow her
feelings. Yet, sometimes that wasn't any protection at
all. Tears began and soon she was sobbing like that little
girl she had so often felt.
Over the few weeks, Allie thought and shared
alot about her early years. As she learned ways to face
and deal with her emotions, of empathy for this little one - not
anger - she began to release and to heal that lost, little child
inside.

For many people, living with the
reminder of painful childhood traumas can mean putting on masks,
building walls so others don’t get too close or a variety of
other coping methods.
However the emotion,
mental and physical costs to continue to live their life this
way can also be very costly.
Even the terrors of any teen years and/or adult
experiences leave the ‘footprints’ on our subconscious and
unconscious, that hidden iceberg.
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In this eBook, we will cover:
A. So what
is the Inner child
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As
we will continue our look at the inner network and how this
happened in life, a definition of the term
“Inner Child” and how
the self-system aims to protect a child from the traumatic
events of life.
We
follow the process and explain how the hidden parts of our
complex being - the unconscious and the subconscious parts -
combine to form between 80 to 90% of what happens in our
thinking processes.
We go on to discuss how the Inner child starts and how we can
best reach and help the little one/s inside.
B.
Common Inner Child Personalities
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As
most people explore the concept or the Inner Child and begin to
see their own inner network, several ‘common’, typical
personalities can emerge: the abandoned and neglected ones,
along with the playful, spoiled or fearful child.
How do you encourage yet ‘integrate’ these parts into
your own personality?
C.
Different groups of the Inner Voices –
There are three main sub-sets within the inner child network:
Those within the ‘Parent’ control, the ‘Inner Child’ voices and
mediator ‘Adult’.
How do these interact and how can we help the inner child?
D.
Allow Creator God to
help!
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By
allowing Creator God to help, we learn how to use self-care and
affirmation to begin to ‘re-parent’ and bring hope.
In going through this learning experience, it is
essential to learn how to find safe people to help in the
process.
E.
Conclusions and Comments
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Many people live with masks and walls around them because of the
hurt and trauma of their childhood.
Allowing this inner growth can release a new health and
wholeness for those who are willing to walk the journey.
Then we have included three special
worksheets for your evaluation:
#1. DO I HAVE A FRACTURED SENSE OF SELF?
#2. Check list for TRAUMA LEVELS
#3. THE WOUNDS WE STILL CARRY
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May this eBook add some light for those
who might be struggling
to understand their own Inner Child!